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Elementary School Family Life Education

Elementary Family Life Education is instructed by classroom teachers. Elementary school counselors instruct body safety lessons in kindergarten through grade five.

Human Growth and Development/Reproduction

Grades four and five classroom teachers deliver instruction on Human Growth and Development/Reproduction. Students learn the maturational process, including changes that occur during puberty and processes related to reproduction. Students view age-appropriate videos and participate in lessons that teach these concepts in meaningful ways. Students begin to examine the influence of media on behavior and attitudes and how gender stereotypes are perpetuated in society.

Emotional and Social Health

Elementary Emotional and Social Health lessons include instruction of family relationships, body safety, child abuse prevention, gender stereotyping, and media messages related to sexuality. In the early elementary years students are taught that their body belongs to them, and they have the right to say "no" to any touch they perceive as uncomfortable or unsafe. Students are introduced to types of abuse and where to seek help if needed. An important message is delivered: abuse is never a child's fault.

Grade Level Learning Objectives

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Kindergarten

Emotional and Social Health

K.7. The student will realize that physical affection can be an expression of friendship, of celebration, or of a loving family.

Descriptive Statement: It is important for the student to understand that appropriate expressions of affection are healthy for the individual, the family, and the community. The student will begin to understand the differences between appropriate and inappropriate expressions of affection.

K.8. The student will recognize the elements of good (positive or healthy) and bad (negative or unhealthy) touches by others.

Descriptive Statement: Elements of good touches by others are identified as follows: (1) touching that can be done in front of anyone; (2) touching that is not a secret; (3) touching that makes the child feel good and not uncomfortable; (4) touching that is done to provide cleaning or medical care for the child; and (5) touching that is an expression of affection by a family member. Bad touches by others include the following: (1) touching on private parts of the body; (2) touching to be kept secret; and (3) touching that could produce bad feelings.

K.9. The student will demonstrate how to say "no" to inappropriate approaches from family members, neighbors, strangers, and others.

Descriptive Statement: This involves learning how to say "no" in a loud voice while standing up and looking directly at the person. It is important for children to know that they should tell or report such happenings to a trusted adult such as a parent, teacher, minister, grandparent, or guardian. In addition, they should understand the need to continue telling about inappropriate approaches until someone listens and responds.

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1st Grade

Emotional and Social Health

1.11. The student will realize that physical affection can be an expression of friendship, of celebration, or of a loving family.

Descriptive Statement: The child is reminded that appropriate expressions of affection are important for individual and family well‑being. The student will begin to understand the differences between appropriate and inappropriate expressions of affection and the impact on individual mental health. The importance of privacy and boundaries for self and others is discussed and the student is provided with tools to support the student in demonstrating respect for their personal privacy and boundaries of others.

1.12. The student will demonstrate strategies for responses to inappropriate approaches from family members, neighbors, strangers, and others.

Descriptive Statement: Elements of good (positive, healthy) and bad (negative, unhealthy) touching are reviewed, and methods of avoiding negative encounters are presented. Appropriate use of communication devices such as the phone and internet will be discussed. Children learn how to tell a trusted adult, such as a parent, teacher, minister, grandparent, or guardian, about such incidents when they occur.

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2nd Grade

Emotional and Social Health

2.7. The student will advance in readiness to say "no" and to tell a trusted adult, such as a parent, teacher, minister, grandparent, or guardian, in private about inappropriate approaches from family members, neighbors, strangers, and others.

Descriptive Statement: This is a review of the elements of good (positive, healthy) and bad (negative, unhealthy) touching, including how to handle inappropriate approaches. The student will understand the differences between appropriate and inappropriate expressions of affection and behavior, including the use of electronic devices to convey such feelings.

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3rd Grade

Emotional and Social Health

3.11. The student will demonstrate to others how to respond appropriately to good touches and how to handle inappropriate approaches from relatives, neighbors, strangers, and others.

Descriptive Statement: This is a continuing review of the elements of good and bad touches including responding appropriately both to good and to bad touches. When a good touch is welcomed by the child, he or she can respond by smiling, by returning a similar gesture, or by saying "thank you." Children also need continuing encouragement to tell a trusted adult in private about any inappropriate approaches. This includes inappropriate approaches made by way of electronic devices such as the internet or text messaging. Other responses to inappropriate approaches include saying "no," getting away from the person quickly, telling the person that he or she does not like the touch, and telling a trusted adult about the inappropriate approach.

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4th Grade

Emotional and Social Health

4.7. The student will describe the factors surrounding child abuse and child neglect.

Descriptive Statement: The terms child abuse and child neglect (including sexual abuse and electronic harassment) are explained, as well as how to protect oneself and the importance of confiding in a trusted adult such as a parent, teacher, minister, grandparent, or guardian.

Human Growth and Development

4.1. The student will be able to identify the human reproductive organs.

Descriptive Statement: Emphasis is placed on the male reproductive organs: penis, testicles, scrotum, and urethra; and on the female reproductive organs: uterus, ovaries, vagina, and fallopian tubes.

4.2. The student will identify physical changes that begin to occur during puberty.

Descriptive Statement: The individual differences in growth patterns associated with male and female sexual changes are presented. Male characteristics presented include: increased width of shoulders, increased length of arms and legs, the pituitary gland that controls physical growth through hormones, the appearance of pubic and axillary hair, and changes in the voice. Female characteristics presented include: increased width and roundness of hips, development of breasts, the pituitary gland that controls physical growth through hormones, the appearance of pubic and axillary hair, and the onset of the menstrual cycle. Emphasis is placed on the fact that the onset of sexual changes and growth patterns varies with individuals and that this is natural and normal. Students are helped on an individual basis to avoid anxiety if their development is ahead of or behind their peers. The importance of postponing sexual activity is discussed as is the importance of delaying childbearing. In addition, the importance of personal hygiene in relation to these bodily changes is discussed. When problems arise, teachers and parents are encouraged to continue working together in a team approach to problem-solving.

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5th Grade

Emotional and Social Health

5.10. The student will examine the messages from mass media related to sexuality.

Descriptive Statement: Printed materials, advertising, television, wearing apparel, internet, movies, and music are discussed in relation to gender stereotyping and to the avoidance of sexual exploitation, sexually explicit communication using electronic means, and sexual violence. Students will understand the appropriate use of cell phones and other social media. Students will understand how the media affects mental health issues related to sexuality.

5.12. The student will recognize threatening or uncomfortable situations and how to react to them.

Descriptive Statement: These situations may include walking alone, opening doors to strangers, experiencing sexual abuse or incest, being influenced or coerced into selling their bodies for financial gain, receiving obscene telephone calls or text messages, and facing dangers found in shopping malls. Methods of self-protection and recognition and reporting of threats are identified and stressed. The point is made, however, that most life situations are not threatening.

Human Growth and Development

5.2. The student will identify the human reproductive organs in relation to the total anatomy.

Descriptive Statement: Emphasis is placed on the male reproductive organs: penis, testicles, scrotum, and urethra; and on the female reproductive organs: uterus, ovaries, vagina, and fallopian tubes. The reproductive organs are explained in relation to total human anatomy.

5.3 The student will explain how human beings reproduce.

Descriptive Statement: Instruction includes the uniting of the sperm and the egg and the development of the unborn child inside the uterus. The development of the baby at different stages is illustrated. Emphasis is placed on the consequences of premarital sexual activity. The importance of prenatal care is discussed also, as well as the profound effects of drugs on the mother and developing child.

5.4. The student will recognize the relationship between the physical changes that occur during puberty and the developing capacity for reproduction.

Descriptive Statement: Physical changes that occur during puberty are summarized. Topics included are nocturnal emissions and erections; menstruation; instability of emotions, such as mood swings during puberty; development of a positive attitude toward one's sexuality; and the relationship between changes during puberty and one's ability to conceive and bear children.

5.7. The student will describe the effects of personal hygiene on one's self‑concept.

Descriptive Statement: Discussion focuses on those bodily changes in puberty that require special attention to cleanliness and their relationship to a positive self‑concept and acceptance from peers. Proper use of feminine hygiene products in relationship to cleanliness is included.

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